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Naomi Stamps

Naomi Stamps remembers what her father tells her to think when comparing her body to others.


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Some of my confidence has come from my parents who have always told me how beautiful I am. I’m so blessed that they have instilled so many positive and godly things inside of me so that I can brush off any bad things others may say about me.

I try to tell my friends to do what I do… they don’t. Instead, they compare themselves to Ciara, Jennifer Lopez, Beyonce and other celebrities. They make impossible beauty goals for themselves and then feel bad. When I hear young girls talk about body issues, I always hear my father’s voice saying, “Don’t let someone’s negativity affect you. Let your positive mindset affect them.”

I have mentors who not only teach me skills like playing the piano and creative writing, but also give me positive feedback. Many are women I can look up to and who have real beauty — not the magazine kind.

I’m proud of the way I look. Let the celebrities be who they are, because I am perfectly fine just being me.